The throw down
Mood:
loud
Topic: WSC / Detroit
hi all,
I thought I would tell this story, because I need to remember it. So, on monday, we went to the church to put together a wonderful new backboard and rim and set. We got there at nine, and each bolt seemed to be too tight for the holes we were feeding it through. so one of the bolts, we hammered through and bent one of the threads on the bolts stripped down, so we could not place the nut on the bolt.
So we worked about two hours on this arrangement of poles in order to get the hoop to move up and down. in doing this, the assembly went back together more smooth. We put it up, and left it, and hung out working on the rim assembly figuring out how the bolts worked, and the springs and such. Then Devin, Tiara, and brittney came over, and shannon took them on a field trip to michaels. when they returned, devin and brittney ran through the sactuary where the hoop was standing, and I don't know whether one of the kids, or the wind that followed them blew the thing down, but we heard a great big boom, and the backboard came a tumbling down. We Heard a large crash and came running, and the backboard and frame where broken and bent, and the glass was shattered,
and it looked unrepairable. So, frustrated and embarrassed we put the rim away, and it was the start to a horrible day.
Next Two boys came, Dave Shelton, a regular, one of the boys that is in some of the pictures, got talking to this boy Robert Byrd, and he started harrassing Dave about a video game he borrowed, then, Dave got hit by a ball in the nose in dodge ball, and went into a tither, and started yelling, and exploding with anger, so we pulled johns last rule that if someone fights, everyone goes home.
So we kicked everyone out. Kicking everyone out really relieved some stress that was building. For the most part, we needed that time off, we knew that if we had anymore stress we could have yelled louder at those kids, but because of the way it worked, I just yelled, "ALRIGHT, TIME TO LEAVE" and the kids knew what that meant, because they had heard it before from pastor john. We also did some pastoral talking as John Corn and I approached both of the boys and settled some things out. We tried to get each of the boys realizing that one uping each other was not the answer to this conflict, sometimes, dispite what others percieve, leaving, or ignoring where the best option, because things don't escelate to violence, or hurt boys. The Robert talked about how he "couldn't be seen walking from a fight!" and we simply said sternly-"why" then, I had a harsh discovery that, this is what they were brought up with, not going down on a fight no matter how out numbered or how easily you could get hurt, it was all bloody nuckles when it came to these kids. It is not a suprise because in their town, since January of this year of 2004, till now, the middle of july, there have been 297 deaths due to gun shot. Just imagine how many more, were injuries, but these adults are their role models, they learn from older gang members on the street that what you're sappost to do, is defend your integrity. I say, "defend yourself, until conflict like that arrises, then, use peace." holy smoke, I want to take all the kids on a field trip to the peace paviliion where they learn to: "stop, think peace!" I am starting to see why we are here, to be good influences, more than anything for these kids. the mission center has john running all over the state for them, and we are his stand ins, binding this church together till his return. I can't believe how exhausted I am doing this day in and day out. I think that prayers could be used just to get me through another week and a half till we go back to independence to re-join our cohearts. I just hope that nothing goes asunder during that time.
Oh by the way, anyone reading this can post a comment, I know you're dieing to, just read and press the post comment button, somewhere around this entry. I know you want to. I so want to add it to my blog. I really like criticism and support.
Posted by Jacob
at 10:21 PM CDT